Matchmaking Service
As promised, here is the marriage service you have waited so patiently for! The purpose of this service is to bring Muslim empaths together for marriage. Many empaths really struggle to find a suitable marriage partner, due to being shy, busy, introverted, wanting the process to be halal, not wanting to sign up to marriage apps that are full of narcs, not living in a community or not having the social support they need.
This platform will be a safe space for you inshallah, as I will vet the profiles and find suitable matches. Applicants also need to have read my book as a prerequisite, so there is common ground when it comes to having awareness of not just their issues, but red flags too alongside a mutual desire to grow and heal together with awakened minds.
I’ve made the form simple, so it’s not overwhelming or tedious to fill out. I require a fully completed application form that will take approximately 20 mins to complete. I have included the most important questions to ask and have taken the awkwardness out of asking someone the difficult questions and providing the difficult answers. Everything else, like your favourite colour and food, can be discussed when a match is made inshallah. This service is available for all empaths in all countries, so do spread the word.
I pray that Allah blesses you and allows this platform to be a means for you to find your empath spouse.
Dr. Mona Alyedreessy
Very important disclaimer: I cannot guarantee that everyone who signs up will be an empath. A few covert narcissists will try their luck and sneak in to find victims, so it’s down to you to put everything I taught you into practice and be assertive. If you are unsure about someone, and you have no family members to ask, you can email us here for advice: findyourspouse@themuslimnarcissist.com, but we encourage you to come to a decision on your own, so that you become more confident with identifying problematic behaviour, red flags and trusting your intuition. We only pair up the profiles that have matching answers and will not bear the responsibility for anything that could go wrong with anyone you get to know or marry, you have to do your own due diligence. This is merely just a platform to help bring like-minded good people together. Please involve your male relatives and family members when vetting someone to validate their character and what they wrote on their profiles, so you can get valuable opinions from the people you trust. This will increase your chances of filtering out toxic people, so you can avoid liars, fake empaths and painful experiences.
Terms and Conditions
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You must be someone who has read The Muslim Narcissist Book.
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The form must be completed in full to be accepted. Forms that aren’t filled out well or are incomplete won’t be entered in our database and no refunds will be issued.
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A recent and clear photo of you needs to be uploaded with your application at the end. We promise we will not send your photo to anyone, it is for admin purposes only so we know who best to match you with. We won’t accept applications without a photo.
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You must be a practicing and empathic Muslim who is 18+
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You must be ready for marriage within a year from the time you meet someone suitable.
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We don’t accept applications from men who have the status of just being “separated” from their wives.
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We don’t accept applications from men who want a misyar marriage or secret second wife.
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We don't accept applications from people who aren't residing legally in their country.
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If someone meets an applicant and has a bad experience with them, they will be removed from the database and no refunds will be issued. Rudeness, deception, abuse and immoral behaviour won't be tolerated here and we will not match them with anyone else. You must report bad experiences to us to protect other members.
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Please inform us if you get engaged or married inshallah, so we can remove your profile from the system. We would love to know if you found your match through us! You can let us know if you'd like us to freeze your account while you get to know someone, so others don't get informed about your profile.
How It Works
Admin members will read and check your application form. If all the needed information is there, we will enter your application into our database and contact you via email, should we come across someone whom we think you may be interested in or when someone is interested in you. We recommend that your Wali’s number is passed onto a man after you speak to him first to see if you both like each other, unless you prefer he contacts your Wali first. If that is the case, please provide us with his contact details in the form. Please make sure you answer all the questions. If some do not apply to you, just write N/A.
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The fee for the service is currently only £15 (GBP), to cover software and Admin costs. This is a one-off fee that will increase later for new members when more help is needed to run the service. 20% of all fees will go to charity on behalf of all the applicants and Admin members to increase the blessings in this venture inshallah. You will be taken to a payment page at the end of the form.
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If someone has expressed interest in you, but they do not match what you require, we will not be in touch, so please be specific with what you want and also keep an open mind so you have more options.
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Kindly do not send follow up emails, an Admin member will reach out to you when we have news. We will check the applications for matches every Friday or Saturday morning.
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Members of my private community will be prioritised in the matching process.
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We will publish general member stats when we have them, on this page inshallah, so you know how many options you potentially have in your country.
